Sunday, December 18, 2011

Giant Bite

Oh yeah! I have a baby. In fact, he happened just 8 weeks today. That means that my focus needs to be there instead of trying to do all this other stuff. I didn't blog for a couple weeks because I have been so overwhelmed so rather than making blogging a chore I decided to blog again when I felt like I wanted to and had time to.

So much has happened in the last couple of weeks. Biggest news is my youngest brother's wife had her baby!!! YAY! It was weird looking at her and holding her because she was so tiny. 7 pounds 2 ounces. I know in the whole grand scheme of things that is normal but when you think about it my JD was never that small (at least outside of me) since he was born at 9 pounds 6 ounces. Baby girl seemed so fragile. I was terrified holding her though I absolutely LOVE it!

I also decided to wait until JD gets more use to the world before I try to really get a regular workout program in. That means that Body for Life is out. I may revisit something come the new year but then again I may not. I wasn't at all successful with last year's resolutions so I don't know. I need to really think and plan everything.

I have been somewhat torn in trying to figure out where I wanted this blog to go. I'm doing more and more DIY kind of projects but it didn't feel like it fit on this blog. I want to write about cooking and other random fact I have come across but I want it to be more like a reference sight rather than a personal journal. I came up with and bought the URL I am going to use. The Domesticated Kat. Isn't that awesome?! I am only going to post once or twice a week on it and will keep it to facts, recipes or projects. Things like making jam, redoing the dresser or random things I learned about. For example, what REALLY happens to orange juice or what cellulose, an ingredient that is in a lot of our food, is.

Gross, right? You may not have ever known that if I didn't tell you. Maybe you didn't want to know but now that you do you may want to make some diet changes, huh? I know I sure do. Orange juice is out unless I juice them myself. There is no way I want to drink some year old orange juice that had a flavor pack added to it so the taste, which is lost in the storing process, is added back in. I'm good with water thanks.

My point is I want to keep those kinds of posts somewhat separate. I'm also going to have a cute little store that sells homemade products and a whole section on things like jam and homemade BBQ sauce. I'm finding myself doing more and more "from scratch" items that I really think people would benefit from but it is all hidden in the pages of this blog. I think they deserve their own area, don't you?

Another thing that has been stressing me out is JD's sleeping or lack thereof. I was stressing myself out because he sleeps through the night but only when he is sleeping with me. Lots of things I have read talk about how that spoils them but it is the only way he gets good sleep in. Good sleep for him means good sleep for me. He also rarely naps during the day. I've tried so many things but he just won't do it. I thought I was doing something wrong until I found a website with a bunch of women whose babies don't sleep a whole lot. Last night I finally embraced my baby as an individual and am going to stop trying to fit my star shaped baby into a square hole. That took a bunch of stress off of me. I needed that. Badly. Speaking of JD I can hear him crying upstairs. Mommy to the rescue. Night!

3 comments:

  1. Have you considered having guest post blogs too? I love your new website name. :) Have a great day,
    Mom

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  2. Mason didn't sleep at night or during the day unless he was on me in the beginning. He is still sleeping in my bed now but next to me. I think it was for the first month that he really slept on me all the time. Anyhew, I think of it as like weaning him away from me because he was inside for 9 months to come out in a strange world and to be far away from me at night was scary for him. So I have been slowly separating myself from him. I don't cuddle with him at night anymore and have space from him in the bed and next month he will move to the crib which he is getting used to because he has been napping in it for at least 1 nap a day for the past month. Slow small changes. But you saw my posts on how he didn't like the crib at first now he will sleep in it. I think it is ok to spoil them and cuddle them to death now because in a few years they won't want to anymore and I am going enjoy it for now!

    You are doing an amazing job and you are such a beautiful wonderful Mommy!

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  3. you do so much I don't know how you do it all especially now with a baby. Super woman for sure!!! I am excited to look at your new site. I like your blog as it is just random things you go through as life goes. It really helps others to see they aren't alone and it also helps to see things from a different perspective sometimes:)

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